Saturday, October 02, 2004

How to beat shyness

Want to beat shyness?

First of all let me tell you what shyness is before telling you where to get a free report that will help you with this challenge...then it will be a lot easier to beat shyness.

Shyness is feeling insecure when:

being among people
talking with people
asking somebody a favor

The more unfamiliar a situation is, the more likely shyness occurs. If such a situation is avoided then it will remain unfamiliar. However, the experience of being uncomfortable or inept in a given situation may cause one to become more shy as one becomes more familiar with that situation. Since shyness can cause discomfort and ineptitude, it may become self-reinforcing.

Makes you want to beat shyness doesn´t it? But how do you go about beating shyness?

Read on to the end for the free report..

Shyness is closely associated with anxiety. Its cause can be a kind of "chicken-and-egg" problem in that sometimes shyness seems to originate with a physical anxiety reaction, while other times it seems to develop first and then it becomes the cause of the physical symptoms of anxiety.

Especially children are sometimes shy towards strangers. This varies greatly with the child, and can also quickly disappear when the child starts feeling at ease.

Somebody may be just shy in some regard. For example, a heterosexual may be shy towards somebody of the opposite sex. Or a performer who is not shy at all on stage may be shy in an interview or in his or her personal life.

A shy child may lose much of his shyness as life passes, but usually he or she always retains some tendency or inclination toward shyness.

While shyness is somewhat of a drawback, the opposite, boldness, can go too far also, e.g. impertinently asking favors or causing other inconvenience. Feigned boldness as a compensation for shyness can have the same problem.

Peter Murphy is a peak performance expert. He recently produced a very popular free report:10 Simple Steps to Developing Communication Confidence. This report reveals the secret strategies all high achievers use to communicate with charm and impact. Use it to beat shyness. Apply now because it is available for a limited time only at:

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